Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Would this hurt or help?

C

chop_dice

New Member
Joined
Nov 22, 2007
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
I am finishing up college and I've been with a girl for a month or two now. Because of a religious upbringing, I have always avoided, sometimes just barely, losing my virginity. Through some twisted interpretation of my own values I have allowed myself to mess around but never to actually have sex. For reasons that aren't really important right now I have decided that I want to with this girl, and I'm debating whether or not to tell her I'm a virgin. She's only been with one person (and she got burned and is now going to have to be sold on it again if I want some) and she thinks I'm a player, so I can't figure out if it would hurt or help to let her know.

It seems that one the one hand telling her would make her think it was more special or meaningful and let her know that I'm not a "predator," but on the other hand it might lose me whatever respect she has for me because she thinks she's with a ladies' man (obviously not ENTIRELY true).

What do you guys think? Should I tell her or not?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

M

Mr. Wolf

Banned
Joined
Sep 27, 2007
Messages
722
Reaction score
5
Yea man tell her straight up. Tell her, I'm a virgin, and I know you've slept around, and have some experience. So I want you to show me how to do it. Lead me towards this experience, be the girl!!

Let us know how it goes man.
 
S

Serialized3

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2003
Messages
1,148
Reaction score
18
Location
CO
Neither of you need to know about one another's past sexual history.

"Don't ask, don't tell" isn't just for fags in the military.


It seems that one the one hand telling her would make her think it was more special or meaningful and let her know that I'm not a "predator," but on the other hand it might lose me whatever respect she has for me because she thinks she's with a ladies' man (obviously not ENTIRELY true).
Click to expand...
Women want sex just as much as we do, she might be wondering why you aren't fucking her already. There's nothing predatory about wanting to tag the girl you are dating.
 
N

Nexus Polaris

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 10, 2007
Messages
452
Reaction score
13
This is exactly why I held out for a virgin when I lost mine. I didn't want any of the experience bullshìt getting in the way. It was the most beautifully awkward 4 seconds of my life. It was hilarious in retrospect. But I wouldn't trade it for the best sex in the world with a HB10.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

I

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
Tell her you were a virgin until after sex....
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top