"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am finishing up college and I've been with a girl for a month or two now. Because of a religious upbringing, I have always avoided, sometimes just barely, losing my virginity. Through some twisted interpretation of my own values I have allowed myself to mess around but never to actually have sex. For reasons that aren't really important right now I have decided that I want to with this girl, and I'm debating whether or not to tell her I'm a virgin. She's only been with one person (and she got burned and is now going to have to be sold on it again if I want some) and she thinks I'm a player, so I can't figure out if it would hurt or help to let her know.

It seems that one the one hand telling her would make her think it was more special or meaningful and let her know that I'm not a "predator," but on the other hand it might lose me whatever respect she has for me because she thinks she's with a ladies' man (obviously not ENTIRELY true).

What do you guys think? Should I tell her or not?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Yea man tell her straight up. Tell her, I'm a virgin, and I know you've slept around, and have some experience. So I want you to show me how to do it. Lead me towards this experience, be the girl!!

Let us know how it goes man.
 
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Neither of you need to know about one another's past sexual history.

"Don't ask, don't tell" isn't just for fags in the military.


It seems that one the one hand telling her would make her think it was more special or meaningful and let her know that I'm not a "predator," but on the other hand it might lose me whatever respect she has for me because she thinks she's with a ladies' man (obviously not ENTIRELY true).
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Women want sex just as much as we do, she might be wondering why you aren't fucking her already. There's nothing predatory about wanting to tag the girl you are dating.
 
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This is exactly why I held out for a virgin when I lost mine. I didn't want any of the experience bullshìt getting in the way. It was the most beautifully awkward 4 seconds of my life. It was hilarious in retrospect. But I wouldn't trade it for the best sex in the world with a HB10.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tell her you were a virgin until after sex....
 
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