"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would this be considered acceptable??

MountainSlide

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I work in sales. And I had a customer that’s really cute (she also works in sales). I didn’t sell her because didn’t have the right product in my inventory. But she’s still texting me and I had to explain that I don’t have access to what she wants but can get her an appointment with someone that can. Anyway. She’s still texting on me and the question is, would it be considered unprofessional or totally okay to tell her that I’d like to take her for a drink??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do not overthink this.

If she´s into you, bang her.

If you´re not sure if she´s into you, find out.
 

RedScorpion

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Go for it. She seems to be showing interest in you beyond the interaction for the sale, right? As long as you establish it forward as outside of your job, it’s fine I think.
 

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Ask her to come talk to you face to face before you ask her out.
Don't say anything more after that.
You're risking your job with these texts because everything gets recorded.

If she shows up to see you in person, pay attention to her facial expressions and body language to see if there is a green light.
Ask her a few non-business related questions and see how she responds.
 
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