"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Would this be considered acceptable??

MountainSlide

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I work in sales. And I had a customer that’s really cute (she also works in sales). I didn’t sell her because didn’t have the right product in my inventory. But she’s still texting me and I had to explain that I don’t have access to what she wants but can get her an appointment with someone that can. Anyway. She’s still texting on me and the question is, would it be considered unprofessional or totally okay to tell her that I’d like to take her for a drink??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do not overthink this.

If she´s into you, bang her.

If you´re not sure if she´s into you, find out.
 

RedScorpion

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Go for it. She seems to be showing interest in you beyond the interaction for the sale, right? As long as you establish it forward as outside of your job, it’s fine I think.
 

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Ask her to come talk to you face to face before you ask her out.
Don't say anything more after that.
You're risking your job with these texts because everything gets recorded.

If she shows up to see you in person, pay attention to her facial expressions and body language to see if there is a green light.
Ask her a few non-business related questions and see how she responds.
 
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