"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would this be considered acceptable??

MountainSlide

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I work in sales. And I had a customer that’s really cute (she also works in sales). I didn’t sell her because didn’t have the right product in my inventory. But she’s still texting me and I had to explain that I don’t have access to what she wants but can get her an appointment with someone that can. Anyway. She’s still texting on me and the question is, would it be considered unprofessional or totally okay to tell her that I’d like to take her for a drink??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do not overthink this.

If she´s into you, bang her.

If you´re not sure if she´s into you, find out.
 

RedScorpion

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Go for it. She seems to be showing interest in you beyond the interaction for the sale, right? As long as you establish it forward as outside of your job, it’s fine I think.
 

Tilex

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Ask her to come talk to you face to face before you ask her out.
Don't say anything more after that.
You're risking your job with these texts because everything gets recorded.

If she shows up to see you in person, pay attention to her facial expressions and body language to see if there is a green light.
Ask her a few non-business related questions and see how she responds.
 
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