"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would this be a good OLD joke, but also strategy to do?

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Well this is about a couple of things, but another poster was posting about using like a super chad photo for OLD and then showing up as their actual self. While that would not work of course but I had some other funny ideas.

Like a less extreme option would it work if you took a photo of a Chad or Chad Lites and the beach toned body and cropped your face to it? I mean if you're a lardball that won't work but if you're a slim guy and cropped it to a guy similar size just with lean muscle to make it look like you got more muscular abs. Until she gets your shirt off she won't really notice.

Another idea just as a joke to play with low hanging OLD women would be to go on POF and use random file photos of Hyper Chads and make a profile with it and then start messaging them. Then you set up a time and date somewhere and just never show up and then they're devastated they didn't meet their super chad. I mean since women do this to us guys and no show why not dish it back lol. Of course I would not do it on a high end site like Eharmony or Match but a low end one like POF that doesn't cost anything. Of course edit the pic a bit so when they do a reverse image search it doesn't show.

Another poster suggested to photoshop yourself into images of hot chicks at parties and events to make it look like you're in high demand. I think that's a good idea but would probably take a pro to do it for you properly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Seriously? If you need to resort to this type of nonsense to get dates it's pretty sad. No wonder why I kill it on OLD. This is the mindset of so many people. If not this then desperate texting, needy behavior, posting 10 year old pics, etc etc etc...
 

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Another poster suggested to photoshop yourself into images of hot chicks at parties and events to make it look like you're in high demand. I think that's a good idea but would probably take a pro to do it for you properly.
That's what Fiverr is for dude.
 

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Seriously? If you need to resort to this type of nonsense to get dates it's pretty sad. No wonder why I kill it on OLD. This is the mindset of so many people. If not this then desperate texting, needy behavior, posting 10 year old pics, etc etc etc...
Well, women use 10 year old pics, lie about income, body type, take bad angle shots to hide fat etc. Why not do it just like them and fake it?
 

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Well, women use 10 year old pics, lie about income, body type, take bad angle shots to hide fat etc. Why not do it just like them and fake it?
If you justify your personal dishonesty based on others dishonest actions, then you need to take a long hard look at your own character and try to determine what positive and honest values if any you do have…
This is what I would tell my 10 year old son if I had one…
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you justify your personal dishonesty based on others dishonest actions, then you need to take a long hard look at your own character and try to determine what positive and honest values if any you do have…
This is what I would tell my 10 year old son if I had one…
Women seem dishonest in general but nobody holds them accountable.
 

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Well, women use 10 year old pics, lie about income, body type, take bad angle shots to hide fat etc. Why not do it just like them and fake it?
You do a terrible job screening then because I never have these issues
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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