"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Would this approach work?

zack77766

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Ok she saw me skateboarding yesterday & I'll just walk up to her & say Hey I have a quick question (pause for suspense) how was my skateboarding? How was it on a scale from 1-10. She answers and I say, aw stop it you're embarrasing me. Maybe I'll teach you somtime, What's your number? Than I'll ask maybe one more quesiton and then just leave. This is just an excerpt.

You see, I think she's interested in me already, but would it work if she's with friends? How exactly do I isolate her than? Any suggestions? I like this cuz it will only take me 5 minutes
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zack77766

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remotecontrol said:
You sound kinda young. Why not deliberatley come off your board and let it roll in her direction, make it look like an accident, try not to hit her with it though haha. Anyhow that will give you an excuse to go over to her and say something like "what do you think of my skateboarding skills haha" its funnier see. Once she laughs then thats your opening to say hi my name's whatever" and "are you into skating" just ask a bunch of questions maybe throw in a compliment or two. And ask if she would like to hang out sometime... Hey tell me how you get on man.
I kinda know her but she does seem really interested, esp since she saw me riding. Good idea, but Im in a place where I cant ride inside....
 

JDA70

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how was my skateboarding? How was it on a scale from 1-10
That's approval seeking. Don't do that.

Try something like this " Hi, ever thought about learning how to skateboard?

Then say " I'm good, i'll teach you."
 

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JDA70 said:
That's approval seeking. Don't do that.

Try something like this " Hi, ever thought about learning how to skateboard?

Then say " I'm good, i'll teach you."
Sounds a bit obvious....... anyways I genuinely want to know how I was doing my trick.
 

JDA70

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Sounds a bit obvious....... anyways I genuinely want to know how I was doing my trick.
That's the point. Being direct.

What are you going to say in order to get her fone number?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Say 'Hey, I see you were admiring my skills. Like my board? Guess what, it's haunted. See I learned to skate from the greatest skater in (insert area). He was a great guy, always helping people, you know? Taught me everything I know. Then one day he was showing me how to do a (insert difficult skateboarding trick) and he just dropped dead. Heart attack. His last words were 'Dude... I want you to have my board...' then he passed away. (look sad). And you know what? It seems like whenever I need to learn some new move, or have the balls to try something dangerous, he's like in my head, still guiding me, encouraging me.'

Her - Really?

You 'Nah, I bought it at Wal-Mart. Haha, you're so gullible, haha, haunted skateboard, what a doofus! What's your name?'
 
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