"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Would this approach work?

zack77766

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Ok she saw me skateboarding yesterday & I'll just walk up to her & say Hey I have a quick question (pause for suspense) how was my skateboarding? How was it on a scale from 1-10. She answers and I say, aw stop it you're embarrasing me. Maybe I'll teach you somtime, What's your number? Than I'll ask maybe one more quesiton and then just leave. This is just an excerpt.

You see, I think she's interested in me already, but would it work if she's with friends? How exactly do I isolate her than? Any suggestions? I like this cuz it will only take me 5 minutes
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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remotecontrol said:
You sound kinda young. Why not deliberatley come off your board and let it roll in her direction, make it look like an accident, try not to hit her with it though haha. Anyhow that will give you an excuse to go over to her and say something like "what do you think of my skateboarding skills haha" its funnier see. Once she laughs then thats your opening to say hi my name's whatever" and "are you into skating" just ask a bunch of questions maybe throw in a compliment or two. And ask if she would like to hang out sometime... Hey tell me how you get on man.
I kinda know her but she does seem really interested, esp since she saw me riding. Good idea, but Im in a place where I cant ride inside....
 

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how was my skateboarding? How was it on a scale from 1-10
That's approval seeking. Don't do that.

Try something like this " Hi, ever thought about learning how to skateboard?

Then say " I'm good, i'll teach you."
 

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JDA70 said:
That's approval seeking. Don't do that.

Try something like this " Hi, ever thought about learning how to skateboard?

Then say " I'm good, i'll teach you."
Sounds a bit obvious....... anyways I genuinely want to know how I was doing my trick.
 

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Sounds a bit obvious....... anyways I genuinely want to know how I was doing my trick.
That's the point. Being direct.

What are you going to say in order to get her fone number?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Say 'Hey, I see you were admiring my skills. Like my board? Guess what, it's haunted. See I learned to skate from the greatest skater in (insert area). He was a great guy, always helping people, you know? Taught me everything I know. Then one day he was showing me how to do a (insert difficult skateboarding trick) and he just dropped dead. Heart attack. His last words were 'Dude... I want you to have my board...' then he passed away. (look sad). And you know what? It seems like whenever I need to learn some new move, or have the balls to try something dangerous, he's like in my head, still guiding me, encouraging me.'

Her - Really?

You 'Nah, I bought it at Wal-Mart. Haha, you're so gullible, haha, haunted skateboard, what a doofus! What's your name?'
 
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