"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would this approach work?

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Ok she saw me skateboarding yesterday & I'll just walk up to her & say Hey I have a quick question (pause for suspense) how was my skateboarding? How was it on a scale from 1-10. She answers and I say, aw stop it you're embarrasing me. Maybe I'll teach you somtime, What's your number? Than I'll ask maybe one more quesiton and then just leave. This is just an excerpt.

You see, I think she's interested in me already, but would it work if she's with friends? How exactly do I isolate her than? Any suggestions? I like this cuz it will only take me 5 minutes
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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remotecontrol said:
You sound kinda young. Why not deliberatley come off your board and let it roll in her direction, make it look like an accident, try not to hit her with it though haha. Anyhow that will give you an excuse to go over to her and say something like "what do you think of my skateboarding skills haha" its funnier see. Once she laughs then thats your opening to say hi my name's whatever" and "are you into skating" just ask a bunch of questions maybe throw in a compliment or two. And ask if she would like to hang out sometime... Hey tell me how you get on man.
I kinda know her but she does seem really interested, esp since she saw me riding. Good idea, but Im in a place where I cant ride inside....
 

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how was my skateboarding? How was it on a scale from 1-10
That's approval seeking. Don't do that.

Try something like this " Hi, ever thought about learning how to skateboard?

Then say " I'm good, i'll teach you."
 

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JDA70 said:
That's approval seeking. Don't do that.

Try something like this " Hi, ever thought about learning how to skateboard?

Then say " I'm good, i'll teach you."
Sounds a bit obvious....... anyways I genuinely want to know how I was doing my trick.
 

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Sounds a bit obvious....... anyways I genuinely want to know how I was doing my trick.
That's the point. Being direct.

What are you going to say in order to get her fone number?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Say 'Hey, I see you were admiring my skills. Like my board? Guess what, it's haunted. See I learned to skate from the greatest skater in (insert area). He was a great guy, always helping people, you know? Taught me everything I know. Then one day he was showing me how to do a (insert difficult skateboarding trick) and he just dropped dead. Heart attack. His last words were 'Dude... I want you to have my board...' then he passed away. (look sad). And you know what? It seems like whenever I need to learn some new move, or have the balls to try something dangerous, he's like in my head, still guiding me, encouraging me.'

Her - Really?

You 'Nah, I bought it at Wal-Mart. Haha, you're so gullible, haha, haunted skateboard, what a doofus! What's your name?'
 
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