MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Would the feminists be up in arms if this dating site worked the other way around?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
HeadLightsOn
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It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
MatureDJ
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I have been there, where I did some shopping.HeadLightsOn said:It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
taiyuu_otoko
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They got places like that in Korea too.HeadLightsOn said:It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
So I've heard.
Who Dares Win
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There's a difference between this thing and the red light district in amsterdam.
In red light discrict you are buying sex and therefore women there sell their bodies and show it while this "dating agency" is about dating where something else than body should matter, one thing is to objectivy what you are renting for few minutes while an other is to objectify someone with who you are suppose to be in a relationship.
For all I care they can do whatever they want, Im not gonna hate or shame as long as both parties are consenting adults.
Simply as a man I can say that this is an other double standard.
In red light discrict you are buying sex and therefore women there sell their bodies and show it while this "dating agency" is about dating where something else than body should matter, one thing is to objectivy what you are renting for few minutes while an other is to objectify someone with who you are suppose to be in a relationship.
For all I care they can do whatever they want, Im not gonna hate or shame as long as both parties are consenting adults.
Simply as a man I can say that this is an other double standard.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mojogoat
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Unfortunately I can't find the link, but recently I read of an "experiment" where some male sex workers advertised themselves in the windows of the normally female-exclusive red light district in Amsterdam.
The female prostitutes branded the male prostitutes "disgusting".
Go figure..
The female prostitutes branded the male prostitutes "disgusting".
Go figure..
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Stop giving a shiit about feminists. kthxbye.