MatureDJ
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Would the feminists be up in arms if this dating site worked the other way around?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
HeadLightsOn
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It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
MatureDJ
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I have been there, where I did some shopping.HeadLightsOn said:It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
taiyuu_otoko
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They got places like that in Korea too.HeadLightsOn said:It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
So I've heard.
Who Dares Win
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There's a difference between this thing and the red light district in amsterdam.
In red light discrict you are buying sex and therefore women there sell their bodies and show it while this "dating agency" is about dating where something else than body should matter, one thing is to objectivy what you are renting for few minutes while an other is to objectify someone with who you are suppose to be in a relationship.
For all I care they can do whatever they want, Im not gonna hate or shame as long as both parties are consenting adults.
Simply as a man I can say that this is an other double standard.
In red light discrict you are buying sex and therefore women there sell their bodies and show it while this "dating agency" is about dating where something else than body should matter, one thing is to objectivy what you are renting for few minutes while an other is to objectify someone with who you are suppose to be in a relationship.
For all I care they can do whatever they want, Im not gonna hate or shame as long as both parties are consenting adults.
Simply as a man I can say that this is an other double standard.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Mojogoat
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Unfortunately I can't find the link, but recently I read of an "experiment" where some male sex workers advertised themselves in the windows of the normally female-exclusive red light district in Amsterdam.
The female prostitutes branded the male prostitutes "disgusting".
Go figure..
The female prostitutes branded the male prostitutes "disgusting".
Go figure..
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Stop giving a shiit about feminists. kthxbye.