MatureDJ
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Would the feminists be up in arms if this dating site worked the other way around?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
HeadLightsOn
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It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
MatureDJ
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I have been there, where I did some shopping.HeadLightsOn said:It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
taiyuu_otoko
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They got places like that in Korea too.HeadLightsOn said:It does work the other way around. And SOME women are up in arms, others not.
Where?
Try Amsterdam. Shop windows display women for sale en masse. It's a fun place
So I've heard.
Who Dares Win
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There's a difference between this thing and the red light district in amsterdam.
In red light discrict you are buying sex and therefore women there sell their bodies and show it while this "dating agency" is about dating where something else than body should matter, one thing is to objectivy what you are renting for few minutes while an other is to objectify someone with who you are suppose to be in a relationship.
For all I care they can do whatever they want, Im not gonna hate or shame as long as both parties are consenting adults.
Simply as a man I can say that this is an other double standard.
In red light discrict you are buying sex and therefore women there sell their bodies and show it while this "dating agency" is about dating where something else than body should matter, one thing is to objectivy what you are renting for few minutes while an other is to objectify someone with who you are suppose to be in a relationship.
For all I care they can do whatever they want, Im not gonna hate or shame as long as both parties are consenting adults.
Simply as a man I can say that this is an other double standard.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mojogoat
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Unfortunately I can't find the link, but recently I read of an "experiment" where some male sex workers advertised themselves in the windows of the normally female-exclusive red light district in Amsterdam.
The female prostitutes branded the male prostitutes "disgusting".
Go figure..
The female prostitutes branded the male prostitutes "disgusting".
Go figure..
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Stop giving a shiit about feminists. kthxbye.