“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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would it be weird to add her friends on fb?

LoneWolf

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so i've been meeting her friends now (girl im seeing) and most i've met for the second time last night. now i went to a bar a while ago to watch one of them sing, cause she's a singer. just bought a ticket off her cause i was invited to go again. would it be weird for me to add her on facebook and "attend" to the event? cause there's a page where you can click on "i'm attending" - i mean im going for sure so it wouldnt make me look weird would it? i was going to add her and maybe a couple other people from last night (they all seemed to like me) one of them even wanting to catch up more. just never really asked for their facebook and i need more friends cause i'm still new where i live and i don't have many friends.

so .. would it be weird to add them? her friends who are slowly becoming my friends?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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f283000

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No it wouldn't be weird and frankly you are way over-thinking this.

If you are over thinking little things that don't mean anything such as this then I don't even want to imagine what you go through with more important things!

Just add them it's not like it matters you're probably the 100th guy they barely know they have as a friend there much like most females out there. A friendship request on social sites doesn't mean much.
 

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People who are entertainers want as many facebook fiends and attention as possible.

If she were not a singer, and especially if she was hotter than your girlfriend, then adding her might be weird because it looks like you are hitting on her. But that is not the case here.
 

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add them, then you get to see more of the sh!t she hides, wait till you seee her girls night out pics that her friends have up hahahha
 

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LoneWolf, at some point you gotta start living your own life.

Every day it's a new, weird question from you. "How long do you guys have sex for?" "do you take the condom off after you finish or do you lay there?" "sex before or after movie"?

Come on man, if I figured this out without asking questions about every stupid thing, then you can too. You sound like those kids I hated in my high school and college classes because they'd ask the teacher 1000 questions, extending class by 30 minutes.

Use that nerdy brain of yours to figure stuff out on your own
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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