"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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would it be weird to add her friends on fb?

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so i've been meeting her friends now (girl im seeing) and most i've met for the second time last night. now i went to a bar a while ago to watch one of them sing, cause she's a singer. just bought a ticket off her cause i was invited to go again. would it be weird for me to add her on facebook and "attend" to the event? cause there's a page where you can click on "i'm attending" - i mean im going for sure so it wouldnt make me look weird would it? i was going to add her and maybe a couple other people from last night (they all seemed to like me) one of them even wanting to catch up more. just never really asked for their facebook and i need more friends cause i'm still new where i live and i don't have many friends.

so .. would it be weird to add them? her friends who are slowly becoming my friends?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No it wouldn't be weird and frankly you are way over-thinking this.

If you are over thinking little things that don't mean anything such as this then I don't even want to imagine what you go through with more important things!

Just add them it's not like it matters you're probably the 100th guy they barely know they have as a friend there much like most females out there. A friendship request on social sites doesn't mean much.
 
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People who are entertainers want as many facebook fiends and attention as possible.

If she were not a singer, and especially if she was hotter than your girlfriend, then adding her might be weird because it looks like you are hitting on her. But that is not the case here.
 
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add them, then you get to see more of the sh!t she hides, wait till you seee her girls night out pics that her friends have up hahahha
 
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LoneWolf, at some point you gotta start living your own life.

Every day it's a new, weird question from you. "How long do you guys have sex for?" "do you take the condom off after you finish or do you lay there?" "sex before or after movie"?

Come on man, if I figured this out without asking questions about every stupid thing, then you can too. You sound like those kids I hated in my high school and college classes because they'd ask the teacher 1000 questions, extending class by 30 minutes.

Use that nerdy brain of yours to figure stuff out on your own
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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