"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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would it be weird to add her friends on fb?

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LoneWolf

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so i've been meeting her friends now (girl im seeing) and most i've met for the second time last night. now i went to a bar a while ago to watch one of them sing, cause she's a singer. just bought a ticket off her cause i was invited to go again. would it be weird for me to add her on facebook and "attend" to the event? cause there's a page where you can click on "i'm attending" - i mean im going for sure so it wouldnt make me look weird would it? i was going to add her and maybe a couple other people from last night (they all seemed to like me) one of them even wanting to catch up more. just never really asked for their facebook and i need more friends cause i'm still new where i live and i don't have many friends.

so .. would it be weird to add them? her friends who are slowly becoming my friends?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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f283000

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No it wouldn't be weird and frankly you are way over-thinking this.

If you are over thinking little things that don't mean anything such as this then I don't even want to imagine what you go through with more important things!

Just add them it's not like it matters you're probably the 100th guy they barely know they have as a friend there much like most females out there. A friendship request on social sites doesn't mean much.
 
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People who are entertainers want as many facebook fiends and attention as possible.

If she were not a singer, and especially if she was hotter than your girlfriend, then adding her might be weird because it looks like you are hitting on her. But that is not the case here.
 
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add them, then you get to see more of the sh!t she hides, wait till you seee her girls night out pics that her friends have up hahahha
 
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LoneWolf, at some point you gotta start living your own life.

Every day it's a new, weird question from you. "How long do you guys have sex for?" "do you take the condom off after you finish or do you lay there?" "sex before or after movie"?

Come on man, if I figured this out without asking questions about every stupid thing, then you can too. You sound like those kids I hated in my high school and college classes because they'd ask the teacher 1000 questions, extending class by 30 minutes.

Use that nerdy brain of yours to figure stuff out on your own
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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