"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would it be too presumptuous to say she is interested in me?

Shivastorm_88

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There's this girl at my school, I met her recently and we talked twice, and between the first and second time she just randomly sent me a message on a website that I'm member (it's a website where you rate the picture of people, decently popular in Quebec I guess) and the next day me her and others were sitting the the cafeteria and she just randomly started playing with my foot, trying to squish it under hers. I'm guessing it is signs of interest, but maybe I'm being to presumptuous and she's just being playful or whatever...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interceptor

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Let me ask you somethings...

What if she is??
What would you do?

What if she is NOT?
What would you do then??


Here's a couple of words that may help you gain a sense of something that may be missing.


Risk.

Balls.

Courage.

Man.

Confidence.

Indiference.

Lack of expectation.

No Scarcity Complex.

Masculinity.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What did you do afterward and how did she react to it?
 

Gangster Of Love

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She was interested in you only if she followed the above by putting her foot on your crotch, and that is only a wild guess, still wouldn't know if that was a sign of interest. Wait 'till she shows more obvious signs, then ask her if she is interested in you.
 

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her touching you = good thing.

if you wait much longer, she's going to take it as you rejected her and she'll move on. make something happen
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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