"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Would it be too presumptuous to say she is interested in me?

Shivastorm_88

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There's this girl at my school, I met her recently and we talked twice, and between the first and second time she just randomly sent me a message on a website that I'm member (it's a website where you rate the picture of people, decently popular in Quebec I guess) and the next day me her and others were sitting the the cafeteria and she just randomly started playing with my foot, trying to squish it under hers. I'm guessing it is signs of interest, but maybe I'm being to presumptuous and she's just being playful or whatever...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Interceptor

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Let me ask you somethings...

What if she is??
What would you do?

What if she is NOT?
What would you do then??


Here's a couple of words that may help you gain a sense of something that may be missing.


Risk.

Balls.

Courage.

Man.

Confidence.

Indiference.

Lack of expectation.

No Scarcity Complex.

Masculinity.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What did you do afterward and how did she react to it?
 

Gangster Of Love

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She was interested in you only if she followed the above by putting her foot on your crotch, and that is only a wild guess, still wouldn't know if that was a sign of interest. Wait 'till she shows more obvious signs, then ask her if she is interested in you.
 

::xander::

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her touching you = good thing.

if you wait much longer, she's going to take it as you rejected her and she'll move on. make something happen
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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