"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Would it be too presumptuous to say she is interested in me?

Shivastorm_88

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There's this girl at my school, I met her recently and we talked twice, and between the first and second time she just randomly sent me a message on a website that I'm member (it's a website where you rate the picture of people, decently popular in Quebec I guess) and the next day me her and others were sitting the the cafeteria and she just randomly started playing with my foot, trying to squish it under hers. I'm guessing it is signs of interest, but maybe I'm being to presumptuous and she's just being playful or whatever...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Interceptor

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Let me ask you somethings...

What if she is??
What would you do?

What if she is NOT?
What would you do then??


Here's a couple of words that may help you gain a sense of something that may be missing.


Risk.

Balls.

Courage.

Man.

Confidence.

Indiference.

Lack of expectation.

No Scarcity Complex.

Masculinity.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What did you do afterward and how did she react to it?
 

Gangster Of Love

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She was interested in you only if she followed the above by putting her foot on your crotch, and that is only a wild guess, still wouldn't know if that was a sign of interest. Wait 'till she shows more obvious signs, then ask her if she is interested in you.
 

::xander::

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her touching you = good thing.

if you wait much longer, she's going to take it as you rejected her and she'll move on. make something happen
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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