"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your best friend went out with a girl, then broke up with her and while he's broke up you start talking with the girl, and make a move on her, only to learn that he's fallen back into the "oneitis" trap.
he's a major AFC who's friendzoned and it's over for him, so should i go for it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bros > hoes.

even if he is an AFC, he's your BEST friend. you can always find more girls, but never backstab a BEST friend like that. Some people may disagree with me, but I personally care more about my BEST friend than some girl.

If you've read this but still want to see this girl, it really boils down to how much value you put on this friendship. Hope this helps
 

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^I agree 100% with what BongDuy said
 

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BongDuy said:
bros > hoes.

even if he is an AFC, he's your BEST friend. you can always find more girls, but never backstab a BEST friend like that. Some people may disagree with me, but I personally care more about my BEST friend than some girl.

If you've read this but still want to see this girl, it really boils down to how much value you put on this friendship. Hope this helps
This. If you want to get your d1ck wet and lose your bestfriend over it, you could go for it.
 

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thanks guys, i really appreciate it.
so far, i've confronted him, and he seems ok, but i let him know that if he has any problems/ last minute decisions, then he should let me know and ill back off.
he seems cool with it, and appreciates the honesty.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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eaglez1177

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^Just so you know, just because he says hes okay with it doesn't mean hes actually okay with it. Idk man its your call but I wouldnt wanna lose my best friend over some chick.
 
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