"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kevin1198

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Your best friend went out with a girl, then broke up with her and while he's broke up you start talking with the girl, and make a move on her, only to learn that he's fallen back into the "oneitis" trap.
he's a major AFC who's friendzoned and it's over for him, so should i go for it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BongDuy

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bros > hoes.

even if he is an AFC, he's your BEST friend. you can always find more girls, but never backstab a BEST friend like that. Some people may disagree with me, but I personally care more about my BEST friend than some girl.

If you've read this but still want to see this girl, it really boils down to how much value you put on this friendship. Hope this helps
 

eaglez1177

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^I agree 100% with what BongDuy said
 

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BongDuy said:
bros > hoes.

even if he is an AFC, he's your BEST friend. you can always find more girls, but never backstab a BEST friend like that. Some people may disagree with me, but I personally care more about my BEST friend than some girl.

If you've read this but still want to see this girl, it really boils down to how much value you put on this friendship. Hope this helps
This. If you want to get your d1ck wet and lose your bestfriend over it, you could go for it.
 

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thanks guys, i really appreciate it.
so far, i've confronted him, and he seems ok, but i let him know that if he has any problems/ last minute decisions, then he should let me know and ill back off.
he seems cool with it, and appreciates the honesty.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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eaglez1177

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^Just so you know, just because he says hes okay with it doesn't mean hes actually okay with it. Idk man its your call but I wouldnt wanna lose my best friend over some chick.
 
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