"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would it be a bad idea if I got together with my ex's girlfriends boyfriends ex? My ex broke up with me like 2 weeks ago, and is with another guy now. The guys ex and I started talking and i joked around about getting together with her to get back at them :D . I'm dont really wanna get back at the two, but i think she could take it seriously. I mean, i'm not gonna get together with her to make the other two mad, because in my eyes she is a legit pick up. If I get together with her, it's because i feel like she's attracted to me, and i'm quite attracted to her. Would people start thinking i'm a d!ck if i do this?

My question is if i got together with this girl, who happens to be my ex's boyfriends ex, would i look like an azzhole?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That first sentence is quite ambiguous.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alright, i think i cleared it up a little bit better. Ask questions if you're still confused
 
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No, it still says you want to get togehter with your ex-girlfriends, ex-boyfriend.

Is the situation that you want to get with the ex-girlfriend of your ex-girlfriend's former boyfriend?

Go for it. Who cares what they think.
 
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it's my ex's current boyfriends ex. Haha, yea, it's kinda hard to word. Yea, i don't really care what they think, but what about what everyone else thinks about it? Knowing my school, someone could say something and another person would hear it differently and rumors would start going around about me. You guys think i should do it? Also, there is another girl that i'm gonna see in a couple days, and i dunno if i should go for her or the other girl
 
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You shouldn't care what anybody thinks. Screw their rumors. As for the other girl, play them both. No need to limit yourself to one girl until you decide to be serious with one of them. If you haven't already, look into the plate theory. There are a million posts about it here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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