"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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crazyman11

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Would it be a bad idea if I got together with my ex's girlfriends boyfriends ex? My ex broke up with me like 2 weeks ago, and is with another guy now. The guys ex and I started talking and i joked around about getting together with her to get back at them :D . I'm dont really wanna get back at the two, but i think she could take it seriously. I mean, i'm not gonna get together with her to make the other two mad, because in my eyes she is a legit pick up. If I get together with her, it's because i feel like she's attracted to me, and i'm quite attracted to her. Would people start thinking i'm a d!ck if i do this?

My question is if i got together with this girl, who happens to be my ex's boyfriends ex, would i look like an azzhole?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tekniq

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That first sentence is quite ambiguous.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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crazyman11

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Alright, i think i cleared it up a little bit better. Ask questions if you're still confused
 

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No, it still says you want to get togehter with your ex-girlfriends, ex-boyfriend.

Is the situation that you want to get with the ex-girlfriend of your ex-girlfriend's former boyfriend?

Go for it. Who cares what they think.
 

crazyman11

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it's my ex's current boyfriends ex. Haha, yea, it's kinda hard to word. Yea, i don't really care what they think, but what about what everyone else thinks about it? Knowing my school, someone could say something and another person would hear it differently and rumors would start going around about me. You guys think i should do it? Also, there is another girl that i'm gonna see in a couple days, and i dunno if i should go for her or the other girl
 

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You shouldn't care what anybody thinks. Screw their rumors. As for the other girl, play them both. No need to limit yourself to one girl until you decide to be serious with one of them. If you haven't already, look into the plate theory. There are a million posts about it here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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