"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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would I have better grades if I had a gf?

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I always wondered this. I've only been on a couple date since I started college, I'm finishing up my junior year. I only have a couple friends. I only go out on Friday nights, study on the weekends. My grades are pretty decent, 3.4 ***. It would give my right hand a rest too. I do have more time without a gf, but that time is spent watching TV, etc.

Caesar
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tactic

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One word. Depends.



You might want to go out there and check out everything and experience things with women for a while or with friends before you ask this question. Trust me, because I wouldn't have asked this myself either.
 

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they are mutually exclusive. your grades are dependent on how much work YOU put into them. if you are like me, your grades are crap ALWAYS.
 

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i get what you're saying and i am in the same situation. yeah you might get better grades if u get laid regularly and without much effort. i am 21 and at this age i am really horny. so when i am at the library, when i am "studying" i spend most of the time watching chicks walk by and being like damm she's got big titties, i would do her...etc. if i knew i was getting laid tonight or even in a few days i might actually concentrate more on studying...being at home doesnt help either, i have no chicks here, but fukk it's internet porn time...haha...damn i need to get me some chicks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I feel the same way-if I had a girlfriend, then I'd get better grades. I feel something missing (sex, friends) and I know that if I had them consistently then I'd be able to focus more on school work. Without a GF, I just spend hours in front of the books in thought (or look at the girls pass by in the library...which shows desperation) , usually feeling sorry for myself and other negative thoughts. It almost happens naturally.
 
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