"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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would I have better grades if I had a gf?

Caesar

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I always wondered this. I've only been on a couple date since I started college, I'm finishing up my junior year. I only have a couple friends. I only go out on Friday nights, study on the weekends. My grades are pretty decent, 3.4 ***. It would give my right hand a rest too. I do have more time without a gf, but that time is spent watching TV, etc.

Caesar
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tactic

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One word. Depends.



You might want to go out there and check out everything and experience things with women for a while or with friends before you ask this question. Trust me, because I wouldn't have asked this myself either.
 

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they are mutually exclusive. your grades are dependent on how much work YOU put into them. if you are like me, your grades are crap ALWAYS.
 

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i get what you're saying and i am in the same situation. yeah you might get better grades if u get laid regularly and without much effort. i am 21 and at this age i am really horny. so when i am at the library, when i am "studying" i spend most of the time watching chicks walk by and being like damm she's got big titties, i would do her...etc. if i knew i was getting laid tonight or even in a few days i might actually concentrate more on studying...being at home doesnt help either, i have no chicks here, but fukk it's internet porn time...haha...damn i need to get me some chicks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I feel the same way-if I had a girlfriend, then I'd get better grades. I feel something missing (sex, friends) and I know that if I had them consistently then I'd be able to focus more on school work. Without a GF, I just spend hours in front of the books in thought (or look at the girls pass by in the library...which shows desperation) , usually feeling sorry for myself and other negative thoughts. It almost happens naturally.
 
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