"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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would i be a bad person for sending a girl this message?

Bogs1212

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(her name),

When I first met you, I was fvcked up as hell. You looked hot (after 10 beers), so I spit my quality game at you, and within 5 minutes, I fvcked you. Week later, I call you up, and meet you. Oops. You don't look anything like what I remembered you looked like. I decided i would Drink as much as possible in order to make u look hotter. This plan fell through when u said we should leave after only 3 drinks. We left, and I fvcked u, and I couldnt come because u were so damn ugly.

After that night, you looked at me like some kind of pu$$y. Maybe it was because I wasn't spittin my A game ever since our first fvck (that $hit is reserved for hot girls, ugly girls usually get too overwhelmed by it) The girl ive been fvcking these days left to go back to Finland (where she was from) last thursday, and after an unsuccessful weekend of trying to get laid, I woke up super horny with a huge boner this morning, and decided to message you. Your response pissed me off so much that I wrote this. Don't message me back, becuase anything you write will be deleted.

Peace
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LostAndConfused

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Well, you can probably say goodbye to whatever social-proof you have in the circle she's in. That letter is going to spread like wildfire and be gossip for months

I would take out this part: "Your response pissed me off so much that I wrote this." and change the words to something like: "Your response to me made me realize you deserve what I'm writing." Swapping those words around makes it seem less reactionary and more thought-out.

Still, she'll think you're an ******* lol. I'd probably do the same thing to a woman though....but if she's insecure, you might not want to give her that message because it would drive her over the edge.
 
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You are an AFC. A DJ would never send that to anybody.
 

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haha, I agree as well. I woudl have never sent it (nor did I really consider sending it). I wrote it b/c I was pissed off, but because I did not want to send it, nor did i want to delete such gold, I thought id post it on this forum to give others a chuckle or two.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bogs1212 said:
haha, I agree as well. I woudl have never sent it (nor did I really consider sending it). I wrote it b/c I was pissed off, but because I did not want to send it, nor did i want to delete such gold, I thought id post it on this forum to give others a chuckle or two.


Are you being confident? :kick:
 
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haha, I agree as well. I woudl have never sent it (nor did I really consider sending it). I wrote it b/c I was pissed off, but because I did not want to send it, nor did i want to delete such gold, I thought id post it on this forum to give others a chuckle or two.

Just the fact that you wrote that note at all is pretty bad.
 

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thats just out right mean and nasty.
if you don't want a relationship with her, break things off, but don't break her self esteem and confidence by telling her she's ugly and makes you wanna vomit. it does not help you any, and it doesn't help her either.
unless you are one of those people that have such low self esteem that you take pleasure in breaking someone else's down like a school yard bully.

just man up, grab your balls, and tell her that you have other things going on and you can't keep seeing her and end it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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young_gun

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"Spit my A game at you"

Chode
 

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Bogs1212 said:
(her name),

When I first met you, I was fvcked up as hell. You looked hot (after 10 beers), so I spit my quality game at you, and within 5 minutes, I fvcked you. Week later, I call you up, and meet you. Oops. You don't look anything like what I remembered you looked like. I decided i would Drink as much as possible in order to make u look hotter. This plan fell through when u said we should leave after only 3 drinks. We left, and I fvcked u, and I couldnt come because u were so damn ugly.

After that night, you looked at me like some kind of pu$$y. Maybe it was because I wasn't spittin my A game ever since our first fvck (that $hit is reserved for hot girls, ugly girls usually get too overwhelmed by it) The girl ive been fvcking these days left to go back to Finland (where she was from) last thursday, and after an unsuccessful weekend of trying to get laid, I woke up super horny with a huge boner this morning, and decided to message you. Your response pissed me off so much that I wrote this. Don't message me back, becuase anything you write will be deleted.

Peace

Bad person no. Pathetic yes. You're pissed and need to walk away and cool off before you embarrass yourself.

Rule of thumb - don't contact someone to tell them you don't want any contact with them. Just go.

And they guy that told you earlier in the thread that this is an AFC move nailed it. It really is one of the worst AFC things you could do. Don't forget to get drunk and call her crying and apologizing later. That's the next step in the program.

Just.....walk....away.
 

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Hahaha, I know you were joking, but seriously, don't ever say this to anyone. Ever. Ever.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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