"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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would going silent for a while do me a favor?

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So I've been seeing a girl for what will be 2 weeks tomorrow. we have had sex twice since and been out a few times.

The question is, if at this stage of the game, having only known her this long, would stopping calls/texts/arranging meets do me any favors, or will it just make her back off because she doesn't know me all that well anyway?

Any advice appreciated.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok, the reason I want to initiate this shunning is due to the fact I asked her to come round / go out last night and she said she wasn't sure if she was seeing her friend or not so I said fine just let me know.

Then I went out last night and saw her in a club I was in so I approach to say hello then she actually physically turns her back on me and acts like i'm not there, hilarious.
 
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give her the silent treatment. FOR LIFE!!!!!! you just got dissed like a b!tch.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OK, but she has my jacket, and I want it back so how am I supposed to do that?
 
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UnsworthK said:
OK, but she has my jacket, and I want it back so how am I supposed to do that?
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You could just ask for your jacket. You know....like a regular person.

Fact of the matter is, your girl punked you. It's not like you have to play mind games with her at this point. The relationship is over. You just have to move forward.
 
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