"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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would going silent for a while do me a favor?

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So I've been seeing a girl for what will be 2 weeks tomorrow. we have had sex twice since and been out a few times.

The question is, if at this stage of the game, having only known her this long, would stopping calls/texts/arranging meets do me any favors, or will it just make her back off because she doesn't know me all that well anyway?

Any advice appreciated.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok, the reason I want to initiate this shunning is due to the fact I asked her to come round / go out last night and she said she wasn't sure if she was seeing her friend or not so I said fine just let me know.

Then I went out last night and saw her in a club I was in so I approach to say hello then she actually physically turns her back on me and acts like i'm not there, hilarious.
 
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give her the silent treatment. FOR LIFE!!!!!! you just got dissed like a b!tch.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OK, but she has my jacket, and I want it back so how am I supposed to do that?
 
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UnsworthK said:
OK, but she has my jacket, and I want it back so how am I supposed to do that?
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You could just ask for your jacket. You know....like a regular person.

Fact of the matter is, your girl punked you. It's not like you have to play mind games with her at this point. The relationship is over. You just have to move forward.
 
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