Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Normally I'm on the same page as you sir. This instance however is a gamble for lack of better words. There are very discernable levels of porn actress who may or maynot do sexual acts the typical girl would be up for. Living near LA (the porn hub in the states for those not in the know) I've met more than my far share of adult actress. Some of them do only masturbation on cam while others will literally eat ****. In between there are level jumpers who "upgrade" to different acts if the pay is right. Porn is a billion dollar industry so the people in it are only as decent as money can buy.Da Realist said:To be honest, how do you know the "normal" women aren't any different? The only difference between a woman who married a dependable guy who she constantly cheats on and a prostitute is a ring.
A $100, what have the women of this world become? =/JT7890 said:The only difference between the porno star/hooker and the average girl is the porno star/hooker is on TAPE or does her dirt openly. But I can assure you the average girl has done all of the nasty shyt before also.
I don't really discriminate. If the girl is currently an ACTIVE porno star or hooker then probably not, but if she's no longer that I don't see what the big deal is if she's tested and clean. You don't know WHO is a trick on the side. I've met many "average chicks" that flat out told me they would let me fvck for $100.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Agree on here,I would rather date a stripper than any of those bossy women that are not going to cook or behave like a woman is supposed to.JT7890 said:The only difference between the porno star/hooker and the average girl is the porno star/hooker is on TAPE or does her dirt openly. But I can assure you the average girl has done all of the nasty shyt before also.
I don't really discriminate. If the girl is currently an ACTIVE porno star or hooker then probably not, but if she's no longer that I don't see what the big deal is if she's tested and clean. You don't know WHO is a trick on the side. I've met many "average chicks" that flat out told me they would let me fvck for $100.