"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
would anyone here really date a porn star
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
But someone who gets paid to take it up the ass? No way.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Normally I'm on the same page as you sir. This instance however is a gamble for lack of better words. There are very discernable levels of porn actress who may or maynot do sexual acts the typical girl would be up for. Living near LA (the porn hub in the states for those not in the know) I've met more than my far share of adult actress. Some of them do only masturbation on cam while others will literally eat ****. In between there are level jumpers who "upgrade" to different acts if the pay is right. Porn is a billion dollar industry so the people in it are only as decent as money can buy.Da Realist said:
Look at the wording here. The OP didn't say "f-ck", he said "date". You'd honestly be cool with the girl you are seeing doing ass-to-mouth in front of millions of people and then kissing her afterwards?
The sad state of manhood nowadays never ceases to amaze/disgust me.
What if she were a stripper would it be any different? Dating a stripper? I think it's probably the same, a HELL NO to that too, but I'm all ears brothas!
Even just ****ing I don't think I'd do it either, I mean if she ain't a quality girl, ****ing is also pretty bad IMO, what is the difference? If you're cool with ****ing but not with dating isn't that the same, I mean, if you're cool with one thing shouldn't you be cool with both things? ****ing a girl who you don't think is worthy of being your GF, what's the logic in that, can someone please explain?? TY!!
I don't really discriminate. If the girl is currently an ACTIVE porno star or hooker then probably not, but if she's no longer that I don't see what the big deal is if she's tested and clean. You don't know WHO is a trick on the side. I've met many "average chicks" that flat out told me they would let me fvck for $100.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
A $100, what have the women of this world become? =/JT7890 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Agree on here,I would rather date a stripper than any of those bossy women that are not going to cook or behave like a woman is supposed to.JT7890 said:
Looking at common porn movies I rarely see anything different than what I've done with "normal" girls and it works with other guys as well,at least the stripper don't expect me to treat her like a princess or grant her a moral crown.
The difference is the camera,and let me tell you something a girl fvcked from 20 men or 100 men makes no difference,it's like driving 20km above the limit or 100,you're going to get deprived of your license anyway.