You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Normally I'm on the same page as you sir. This instance however is a gamble for lack of better words. There are very discernable levels of porn actress who may or maynot do sexual acts the typical girl would be up for. Living near LA (the porn hub in the states for those not in the know) I've met more than my far share of adult actress. Some of them do only masturbation on cam while others will literally eat ****. In between there are level jumpers who "upgrade" to different acts if the pay is right. Porn is a billion dollar industry so the people in it are only as decent as money can buy.Da Realist said:To be honest, how do you know the "normal" women aren't any different? The only difference between a woman who married a dependable guy who she constantly cheats on and a prostitute is a ring.
A $100, what have the women of this world become? =/JT7890 said:The only difference between the porno star/hooker and the average girl is the porno star/hooker is on TAPE or does her dirt openly. But I can assure you the average girl has done all of the nasty shyt before also.
I don't really discriminate. If the girl is currently an ACTIVE porno star or hooker then probably not, but if she's no longer that I don't see what the big deal is if she's tested and clean. You don't know WHO is a trick on the side. I've met many "average chicks" that flat out told me they would let me fvck for $100.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Agree on here,I would rather date a stripper than any of those bossy women that are not going to cook or behave like a woman is supposed to.JT7890 said:The only difference between the porno star/hooker and the average girl is the porno star/hooker is on TAPE or does her dirt openly. But I can assure you the average girl has done all of the nasty shyt before also.
I don't really discriminate. If the girl is currently an ACTIVE porno star or hooker then probably not, but if she's no longer that I don't see what the big deal is if she's tested and clean. You don't know WHO is a trick on the side. I've met many "average chicks" that flat out told me they would let me fvck for $100.