She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Normally I'm on the same page as you sir. This instance however is a gamble for lack of better words. There are very discernable levels of porn actress who may or maynot do sexual acts the typical girl would be up for. Living near LA (the porn hub in the states for those not in the know) I've met more than my far share of adult actress. Some of them do only masturbation on cam while others will literally eat ****. In between there are level jumpers who "upgrade" to different acts if the pay is right. Porn is a billion dollar industry so the people in it are only as decent as money can buy.Da Realist said:To be honest, how do you know the "normal" women aren't any different? The only difference between a woman who married a dependable guy who she constantly cheats on and a prostitute is a ring.
A $100, what have the women of this world become? =/JT7890 said:The only difference between the porno star/hooker and the average girl is the porno star/hooker is on TAPE or does her dirt openly. But I can assure you the average girl has done all of the nasty shyt before also.
I don't really discriminate. If the girl is currently an ACTIVE porno star or hooker then probably not, but if she's no longer that I don't see what the big deal is if she's tested and clean. You don't know WHO is a trick on the side. I've met many "average chicks" that flat out told me they would let me fvck for $100.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Agree on here,I would rather date a stripper than any of those bossy women that are not going to cook or behave like a woman is supposed to.JT7890 said:The only difference between the porno star/hooker and the average girl is the porno star/hooker is on TAPE or does her dirt openly. But I can assure you the average girl has done all of the nasty shyt before also.
I don't really discriminate. If the girl is currently an ACTIVE porno star or hooker then probably not, but if she's no longer that I don't see what the big deal is if she's tested and clean. You don't know WHO is a trick on the side. I've met many "average chicks" that flat out told me they would let me fvck for $100.