"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey guys, got this girls number from home while i was overseas told her i'd text when I got back.

Texted her 4 days later something random, went back and forth for a little bit, talking bout how we should meet up and she would teach me manners. I told her that would be f*!king brilliant.

Last 3 texts were

Her: your not doing well, not one please or thank you
Me: Maybe we should for a few private meetings to improve this
Her:Do you promise you'll listen
Me: I always listen
Her: sounds like a plan
Me: Wednesday night?


Next night

Me: Oh were are my manners, did u want to go coffee to discuss my manners wed night?
Her: Sorry I thought I answered! I cant this week sorry hows next?


I tried talking to her on fb once, yet no reply, which when i was overseas thats how we talked.

My question is, Do I wait till next week? Since ive got other plates, I was thinking of msging her the week after, just to confuse her since she'll prob be expecting a text next week?

This girl is fresh out of an LTR so my other thoughts shes just after some attention to boost her ego.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cervantesscthree

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You shouldn't have msgd her on facebook, too much attention given there when she already hasn't replied to yr msg.

I would say forget about her all together but, at the most, and I wouldn't advise this, but forget txting her next week to find out, CALL her whenever the fvck you feel like it, the week after, the month after? Whenever. If she picks up, an is still chatting nonsense, then you know what to do.
 
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You're out. Don't chase...it just looks bad.

If she were really interested in you, then she would have set something up right away...not next week.

Move on.
 
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You're chasing an attention wh0ring princess who's in another castle.

Don't you know that women who are interested in you won't confuse you, and also will make time for you? She's also flaking, which is making you chase her more. Drop her ass.

Case closed. Leave the courtroom.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Haha cheers guys, always good with the advice
 
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