"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey guys, got this girls number from home while i was overseas told her i'd text when I got back.

Texted her 4 days later something random, went back and forth for a little bit, talking bout how we should meet up and she would teach me manners. I told her that would be f*!king brilliant.

Last 3 texts were

Her: your not doing well, not one please or thank you
Me: Maybe we should for a few private meetings to improve this
Her:Do you promise you'll listen
Me: I always listen
Her: sounds like a plan
Me: Wednesday night?


Next night

Me: Oh were are my manners, did u want to go coffee to discuss my manners wed night?
Her: Sorry I thought I answered! I cant this week sorry hows next?


I tried talking to her on fb once, yet no reply, which when i was overseas thats how we talked.

My question is, Do I wait till next week? Since ive got other plates, I was thinking of msging her the week after, just to confuse her since she'll prob be expecting a text next week?

This girl is fresh out of an LTR so my other thoughts shes just after some attention to boost her ego.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You shouldn't have msgd her on facebook, too much attention given there when she already hasn't replied to yr msg.

I would say forget about her all together but, at the most, and I wouldn't advise this, but forget txting her next week to find out, CALL her whenever the fvck you feel like it, the week after, the month after? Whenever. If she picks up, an is still chatting nonsense, then you know what to do.
 
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You're out. Don't chase...it just looks bad.

If she were really interested in you, then she would have set something up right away...not next week.

Move on.
 
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You're chasing an attention wh0ring princess who's in another castle.

Don't you know that women who are interested in you won't confuse you, and also will make time for you? She's also flaking, which is making you chase her more. Drop her ass.

Case closed. Leave the courtroom.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Haha cheers guys, always good with the advice
 
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