"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Worth the chase or AW?

old_skoolr

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Hey guys, got this girls number from home while i was overseas told her i'd text when I got back.

Texted her 4 days later something random, went back and forth for a little bit, talking bout how we should meet up and she would teach me manners. I told her that would be f*!king brilliant.

Last 3 texts were

Her: your not doing well, not one please or thank you
Me: Maybe we should for a few private meetings to improve this
Her:Do you promise you'll listen
Me: I always listen
Her: sounds like a plan
Me: Wednesday night?


Next night

Me: Oh were are my manners, did u want to go coffee to discuss my manners wed night?
Her: Sorry I thought I answered! I cant this week sorry hows next?


I tried talking to her on fb once, yet no reply, which when i was overseas thats how we talked.

My question is, Do I wait till next week? Since ive got other plates, I was thinking of msging her the week after, just to confuse her since she'll prob be expecting a text next week?

This girl is fresh out of an LTR so my other thoughts shes just after some attention to boost her ego.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cervantesscthree

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You shouldn't have msgd her on facebook, too much attention given there when she already hasn't replied to yr msg.

I would say forget about her all together but, at the most, and I wouldn't advise this, but forget txting her next week to find out, CALL her whenever the fvck you feel like it, the week after, the month after? Whenever. If she picks up, an is still chatting nonsense, then you know what to do.
 

Greggie W

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You're out. Don't chase...it just looks bad.

If she were really interested in you, then she would have set something up right away...not next week.

Move on.
 

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You're chasing an attention wh0ring princess who's in another castle.

Don't you know that women who are interested in you won't confuse you, and also will make time for you? She's also flaking, which is making you chase her more. Drop her ass.

Case closed. Leave the courtroom.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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old_skoolr

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Haha cheers guys, always good with the advice
 
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