"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Worth the chase or AW?

old_skoolr

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Hey guys, got this girls number from home while i was overseas told her i'd text when I got back.

Texted her 4 days later something random, went back and forth for a little bit, talking bout how we should meet up and she would teach me manners. I told her that would be f*!king brilliant.

Last 3 texts were

Her: your not doing well, not one please or thank you
Me: Maybe we should for a few private meetings to improve this
Her:Do you promise you'll listen
Me: I always listen
Her: sounds like a plan
Me: Wednesday night?


Next night

Me: Oh were are my manners, did u want to go coffee to discuss my manners wed night?
Her: Sorry I thought I answered! I cant this week sorry hows next?


I tried talking to her on fb once, yet no reply, which when i was overseas thats how we talked.

My question is, Do I wait till next week? Since ive got other plates, I was thinking of msging her the week after, just to confuse her since she'll prob be expecting a text next week?

This girl is fresh out of an LTR so my other thoughts shes just after some attention to boost her ego.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cervantesscthree

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You shouldn't have msgd her on facebook, too much attention given there when she already hasn't replied to yr msg.

I would say forget about her all together but, at the most, and I wouldn't advise this, but forget txting her next week to find out, CALL her whenever the fvck you feel like it, the week after, the month after? Whenever. If she picks up, an is still chatting nonsense, then you know what to do.
 

Greggie W

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You're out. Don't chase...it just looks bad.

If she were really interested in you, then she would have set something up right away...not next week.

Move on.
 

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You're chasing an attention wh0ring princess who's in another castle.

Don't you know that women who are interested in you won't confuse you, and also will make time for you? She's also flaking, which is making you chase her more. Drop her ass.

Case closed. Leave the courtroom.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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old_skoolr

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Haha cheers guys, always good with the advice
 
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