"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Worst cities for picking up chicks?

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CaConfused said:
It is, but most of it is on the South Side. Although it is higher across the board.

It all started with Rahm Emmanuel coming into power. He's horrible. Changed all police protocols and policies. Especially those that deal with gang activity in Southside.
yeah...Dad works at one of the schools that was mentioned in the shooting on Wednesday. (Not that it's been mentioned too often on the news - everyone just assumes the South Side is a third world country.)

I do at least give Rahm a little respect for telling the teacher's unions to go pound sand. That's about the only good thing I can say about him.

the doofus wrote an open letter to the gangs in one of the major newspapers that more or less said "please don't shoot each other when children are present". facepalm.

back to the discussion on women...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best place to pick up girls: Mine.
 

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Any really conservative city or really liberal city. Cities like memphis, you need to have a high school social circle or be some flashy redneck to get a girl. Liberal places like Atlanta and Miami, the girls are going to be over-entitle titled and the competition will be harder.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dhoulmagus said:
Any really conservative city or really liberal city. Cities like memphis, you need to have a high school social circle or be some flashy redneck to get a girl. Liberal places like Atlanta and Miami, the girls are going to be over-entitle titled and the competition will be harder.
Miami is not hard at all, you can find it at all there. My cousin does well there and he says it is a prime spot for Russian girls.
 

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HowardHughesDicaprio said:
Miami is not hard at all, you can find it at all there. My cousin does well there and he says it is a prime spot for Russian girls.
Everybody in miami tries to look like they make 10k a day. Everything is expensive af there.
 

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Just about every modern city in the world is gonna have somewhere you can work with
 

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Worst is any town with less than 100k population. All of you guys complaining about this and that city have no idea how good you have it. "Game" is different in a town, because you can't just "next" when you run into the same people all the time. Try Santa Barbara - some dude just killed himself and a few others because how bad it is in this small town.

Best is any city with over 400k population. I'm talking LA, NYC, D.C., etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HowardHughesDicaprio

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PowerAbuse said:
Worst is any town with less than 100k population. All of you guys complaining about this and that city have no idea how good you have it. "Game" is different in a town, because you can't just "next" when you run into the same people all the time. Try Santa Barbara - some dude just killed himself and a few others because how bad it is in this small town.

Best is any city with over 400k population. I'm talking LA, NYC, D.C., etc.
Not really. In towns you may need to run social circle game but you can still pickup girls. Isla Vista has some of the hottest girls in California, the guy obviously had issues but most sane guys who have game and aren't fat could get something going. Social circle dominates over cold approach but I would take Isla Vista or Atlanta or Toronto anyday.
 

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South Carolina has some of the hottest and friendliest chicks in the country. I'm on the wrong coast
 

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r0cky said:
NYC?? Have you ever been to nyc? I've lived here all my life and i've visitied many other cities and i can say nyc is the best city for pick up. Yea girls like rich guys but if you have a personality that makes their vagina itch it doesnt matter if you're rich or good looking, they're still gona fu k you
I found that when I put on the bow tie girls in NYC would swoon. I moved in with 2 Russian girls who I loved.

Just dress up enough and you are fine in NYC.

Austin is the best, but the hordes of overprotective, smug, ****blocking, unemployed men with Duck Dynasty beards will get to you after awhile, as will the fact that women insist on getting these guys' permission before dating you.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Baltimore, girls are sooo trashy and criteria for picking guys doesn't seem to make any sense. No trend. DC chicks are bad for marriage b/c very irreligious but educated, smart, good for LTRs imo. Unfortunately they are overwhelmingly 6's and 7's although getting better as the government steals the wealth of the ppl.
I can't stop laughing.
 
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