"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi Nicole, I'm Jason, i dont usually do this, but i'd like to see you out sometime.. (going well so far, and i should have continued with "so let me give you a call and we can go out sometime") but no no no, i had to catch a look in her eye, and then for some stupid reason i ask the question " do you have a boyfriend" to which she obviously replies "yes, i've had one for years" so i end the conversation and buy my drink.

earlier on that night i made 3 really good approaches, i got 2 numbers, but this girl was a barmaid, and it totally threw me off, and i did that, i cant believe i was so awful.


nevermind eh, she wasnt interested, so forget her.

i had a good night all the same
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just have fun with it and dont over analyze it
 
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yeah, im not bothered by it, im posting it mainly so other people can see what NOT to do,

i think approaching a barmaid put me off somewhat, but it shouldnt have.

nevermind eh
 
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A guy I know approached a barmaid and gave her roses and asked if she wanted to eat dinner with him. Take it easy.
 
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what's all this about? its a normal rejection, i get a lot of girls that just dont want to talk, say they have boyfriends, etc.. But others want the whole thing right in the night. So keep playing the game playa
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my aim of this thread was to push the point about never asking the question " do you have a boyfriend" as this is the most fatal question of all time.

the rejection was fine, im just saying i made a huge error with this.
 
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that question can work sometimes. there are even girls who have but will tell you they dont have!!
 
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Jason you go to London Met dont you?
 
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You don't have to ask that question because if a girl isn't interested in you she'll say something along the lines of "I'm dating someone... or I have a boyfriend..or I'm married" - Sometimes women I have zero interest in say this right in front of me as if they are either telling me to back off of they're qualifying their stuck-up selves in front of me.

I bet those numbers you got were 1800thanks4dadrinkloser.
 
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