"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Worst AFC ever - had to share

the_stig

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Stumbled upon a few dudes profiles on POF and decided to check out the competition, it's seriously weak. My jaw dropped at what some guys put on their profiles. This is one of the worst and a quintessential example of how NOT to attract women. Hope i'm not being offensive or breaking a rule by posting this.

http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17211505
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the_stig said:
Stumbled upon a few dudes profiles on POF and decided to check out the competition, it's seriously weak. My jaw dropped at what some guys put on their profiles. This is one of the worst and a quintessential example of how NOT to attract women.

http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17211505
Not the worst I've ever seen.

Seems like the kinda guy who would be a great friend.. But extremely boring to a woman. Feel bad for the guy, he just doesn't get it.
 

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I thought his profile was more emo than AFC, with all the rambling about music and some negativity/suicidal thoughts thrown in.
 

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Not the worst but bad. Dude needs to get different glasses.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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holy sh!t, just decided to do a local POF search for laughs, nothing but warpigs looking for their prince charming LOL
 

No Girls 4 U

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Wow. Well, he certainly did a GREAT job of putting together a profile that will scare of women. He just told them in one sitting: "I'm depressed, I'm too nice, and I'm easily punked. PLEASE date me!"

Some people just don't get it...

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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