"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Worst AFC ever - had to share

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Stumbled upon a few dudes profiles on POF and decided to check out the competition, it's seriously weak. My jaw dropped at what some guys put on their profiles. This is one of the worst and a quintessential example of how NOT to attract women. Hope i'm not being offensive or breaking a rule by posting this.

http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17211505
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the_stig said:
Stumbled upon a few dudes profiles on POF and decided to check out the competition, it's seriously weak. My jaw dropped at what some guys put on their profiles. This is one of the worst and a quintessential example of how NOT to attract women.

http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17211505
Not the worst I've ever seen.

Seems like the kinda guy who would be a great friend.. But extremely boring to a woman. Feel bad for the guy, he just doesn't get it.
 

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I thought his profile was more emo than AFC, with all the rambling about music and some negativity/suicidal thoughts thrown in.
 

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Not the worst but bad. Dude needs to get different glasses.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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holy sh!t, just decided to do a local POF search for laughs, nothing but warpigs looking for their prince charming LOL
 

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Wow. Well, he certainly did a GREAT job of putting together a profile that will scare of women. He just told them in one sitting: "I'm depressed, I'm too nice, and I'm easily punked. PLEASE date me!"

Some people just don't get it...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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