Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for the last couple months. We haven't had intercourse but she has given me a bj and I have fingered her. Her period is a week late and still hasn't come. Is it ordinary for every now and then a period to be this late? Also is it possible for her to get pregnant if I accidentally got some cvm on my hand and then fingered her (wouldn't be a lot of cvm sense I didn't notice)? Or am I just worrying myself more than I need too?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pasted from the main page:

"A forum for DJs at least 25 years old to discuss problems, situations, and techniques UNIQUE to older and more mature men."
 

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thanks for describing to me what type of question I asked, now could you answer it?
 

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So very unlikely. $13 for an EPT test, bro. You'll know in minutes.
 

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thanks for describing to me what type of question I asked, now could you answer it?
danro. You are not 25 or older. Stop flaming us for pointing it out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how can someone get pregnant without actually having sex?
 

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danro said:
Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for the last couple months. We haven't had intercourse but she has given me a bj and I have fingered her. Her period is a week late and still hasn't come. Is it ordinary for every now and then a period to be this late? Also is it possible for her to get pregnant if I accidentally got some cvm on my hand and then fingered her (wouldn't be a lot of cvm sense I didn't notice)? Or am I just worrying myself more than I need too?
Yeah i'll answer it now. Just try to put it in the right spot next time, ok?

>Whether you've been sexually active is debatable, since you haven't actually had intercourse.

>Yes its normal for periods to be late sometimes. Its even normal for them to be missed altogether under certain circumstances, such as if she's on a diet, is exercising heavily, is stressed (such as from worrying about being pregnant :rolleyes: ), etc.

> Yes, its possible for her to get pregnant if you put any amount of cu* on your finger then inserted it into her vag***. The chance will mathematically be relatively low from one time doing this with that amount of cu*, but it wont be zero chance.
 

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Alright, thanks a lot. Sorry for flaming you, I've just been worried sick about this and let my temper go. Thanks again for some reassurance.
 

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danro, the answer to ur question is yes u can get her pregnant without intercourse and by reading ur post i would say she probably is pregnant. When u have sexual intercourse without pretection u are ejaculating ur cvm into her vag!na. What u did was u put ur hands, which had ur *** on them and then stuck them in her vag!na. what u did was just like having intercourse with her. Once u put sperm in her vagina they will start swimming to the egg, no matter how u put that sperm there. U can even get her pregnant by putting sperm on the surface of her vagina, They WILL swim into it and to the egg. That means after ur done fvckin her or whatever, u can't cuddle up naked to her in the spooning position because leftover cvm can drip off ur pen!s and on her vagina. Do u now understand?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Found of a site.
How long sperm can live in the open-air depends on the situation, what kind of environment it's in and how much sperm is present. But, on average, sperm can't live for much longer than a few hours in the open-air. It's important to remember that if sperm is inside a women's body, it can survive for up to seven days.

There is a risk of pregnancy if sperm comes into contact with the vagina in any way including from sperm on fingers. If you think that sperm may have come into contact with your vagina within the last five days, and you don't want to get pregnant, you should seek advice on emergency contraception as soon as possible.

If you think you might be pregnant, for example, if your period is late, you can get a urine test done to find out for sure. Most pregnancy tests state that they work as soon as a period is late. If you don't have a regular cycle it can be difficult to know when your period is due, so it's best to take the test three weeks after having unprotected sex (as this is roughly how long it will take for the hormone levels to show up on the test).

But the chances of The girl getting pregnant from a small dose of c** from a finger that 'may' have been there is a little far fetched.
 
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