Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for the last couple months. We haven't had intercourse but she has given me a bj and I have fingered her. Her period is a week late and still hasn't come. Is it ordinary for every now and then a period to be this late? Also is it possible for her to get pregnant if I accidentally got some cvm on my hand and then fingered her (wouldn't be a lot of cvm sense I didn't notice)? Or am I just worrying myself more than I need too?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
how can someone get pregnant without actually having sex?
Yeah i'll answer it now. Just try to put it in the right spot next time, ok?danro said:
>Whether you've been sexually active is debatable, since you haven't actually had intercourse.
>Yes its normal for periods to be late sometimes. Its even normal for them to be missed altogether under certain circumstances, such as if she's on a diet, is exercising heavily, is stressed (such as from worrying about being pregnant
), etc.> Yes, its possible for her to get pregnant if you put any amount of cu* on your finger then inserted it into her vag***. The chance will mathematically be relatively low from one time doing this with that amount of cu*, but it wont be zero chance.
danro, the answer to ur question is yes u can get her pregnant without intercourse and by reading ur post i would say she probably is pregnant. When u have sexual intercourse without pretection u are ejaculating ur cvm into her vag!na. What u did was u put ur hands, which had ur *** on them and then stuck them in her vag!na. what u did was just like having intercourse with her. Once u put sperm in her vagina they will start swimming to the egg, no matter how u put that sperm there. U can even get her pregnant by putting sperm on the surface of her vagina, They WILL swim into it and to the egg. That means after ur done fvckin her or whatever, u can't cuddle up naked to her in the spooning position because leftover cvm can drip off ur pen!s and on her vagina. Do u now understand?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Found of a site.
How long sperm can live in the open-air depends on the situation, what kind of environment it's in and how much sperm is present. But, on average, sperm can't live for much longer than a few hours in the open-air. It's important to remember that if sperm is inside a women's body, it can survive for up to seven days.
There is a risk of pregnancy if sperm comes into contact with the vagina in any way including from sperm on fingers. If you think that sperm may have come into contact with your vagina within the last five days, and you don't want to get pregnant, you should seek advice on emergency contraception as soon as possible.
If you think you might be pregnant, for example, if your period is late, you can get a urine test done to find out for sure. Most pregnancy tests state that they work as soon as a period is late. If you don't have a regular cycle it can be difficult to know when your period is due, so it's best to take the test three weeks after having unprotected sex (as this is roughly how long it will take for the hormone levels to show up on the test).
But the chances of The girl getting pregnant from a small dose of c** from a finger that 'may' have been there is a little far fetched.
How long sperm can live in the open-air depends on the situation, what kind of environment it's in and how much sperm is present. But, on average, sperm can't live for much longer than a few hours in the open-air. It's important to remember that if sperm is inside a women's body, it can survive for up to seven days.
There is a risk of pregnancy if sperm comes into contact with the vagina in any way including from sperm on fingers. If you think that sperm may have come into contact with your vagina within the last five days, and you don't want to get pregnant, you should seek advice on emergency contraception as soon as possible.
If you think you might be pregnant, for example, if your period is late, you can get a urine test done to find out for sure. Most pregnancy tests state that they work as soon as a period is late. If you don't have a regular cycle it can be difficult to know when your period is due, so it's best to take the test three weeks after having unprotected sex (as this is roughly how long it will take for the hormone levels to show up on the test).
But the chances of The girl getting pregnant from a small dose of c** from a finger that 'may' have been there is a little far fetched.