"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have a friend...not a gf. She's just a friend I've known for a while. Anyways, she's getting with a guy. Now I know this guy and he's known to be one of the more....aggresive guys in our grade. I know he's just with her to get in her pants as she's a pretty girl.

Anyways, she told me that she'd be careful, but seriously...I'm kinda worried. Ok, I think I'm worrying too much, but this girl is like a sister to me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does she know he just wants in her pants?
Can you tell her you know for a fact that thats all he wants?
Do you worry cause you think he will abuse her?

You need to give a little more info here...
 
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ahh sorry man. I told her to be careful and she said that she's the most careful girl out there...despite being HAWT and falling for this guy. Anyways, I think I'll just let it go and I'm sure it'll turn out fine, althought she'll be hurting after he dumps her like all the other girls.

It pains to say this, but it's not my problem anymore. Never was.
 
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If its pretty harmless then thats what i'd do too.

Besides, thats more inscentive for her to listen to u next time when it could possibly be more serious right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warn her the guy is a loser or whatever he is. Then back off.

I hate it when my female friends interfere with my life, but at the same time I appreciate it when they drop me info or advice.

So do the same - give her information, and let her decide what to do with it.

"People fork out billions of dollars for information - nobody gives a sh*t about opinion".
 
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It's pretty clear. Tell her your take on what the scenario is and leave her to it. But don't leave her with a "not my problem" kind of atttitude. I don't know exactly what the deal is, your post is kinda fractured, but the flow I get from it is...

Your pretty friend is with this guy you know wants to get jiggy with her and he's got a rep for the five knuckle shuffle instead of the foxtrot.

You told her to watch her ass but she's with him anyway.

You've got a "not my problem anymore, never was" attitude with her. Maybe even before anything has gone wrong. Which would make her think "spiteful ass" perhaps.

I'm not criticising you, I could be mistranslating, but I've been there before and warned a girl about some doozy of a choice she's taken on a partner and I've ended up so wound up by her surely voluntary blindness to what a bast*rd she is with that I've taken the high way of "own your own **** and don't cry to me about it." And somehow I've ended up the bad guy. Even after they break up, and get back together, and break up, and get back... Familiar, anyone?

REMEMBER: When a girl dates a bad guy she will see to it someone else takes the heat.
 
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Ahh damn man. That's hard. Well, I didn't actually say that or use that attitude with her. Just told her to watch out and think first.

I was just thinking too much about it last night and hence, I did the "not my problem anymore" attitude. ?Because I've done all I can you know? Worrying = waste of time.
 
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