RichardTheFrog
Banned
I know, right. What a bunch of pussies.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
World War 2, people would marry the day they meet?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
marmel75
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Don't forget the dudes with the man buns today...sooooo manly...
Von
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How many times did I hear old timers (my parents and up) say: ''Who cares what I liked... it wasn't what was asked of me... it wasn't my duty... I had to take care of everyone, bring food on table etc...''
People sacrificed alot of ''personal emotions'' for the goal of ''community-society-duty''
The sexual revolution of the 1960's brought new concept but people were still ''duty'' oriented
It started to crackdown in the 1970's.... with individuality etc... (an American concept btw)
In Asia, Africa, some parts of Europe... people who want to act like Individuals are hunted down and killed because they don't want to serve the ''Collective''
That's why alot of ''old timers'' and business people don't have faith in younger generations.... because every younger generation puts ''emotions and I in front of the ''group'' or missionss'' while asking accomodations
People sacrificed alot of ''personal emotions'' for the goal of ''community-society-duty''
The sexual revolution of the 1960's brought new concept but people were still ''duty'' oriented
It started to crackdown in the 1970's.... with individuality etc... (an American concept btw)
In Asia, Africa, some parts of Europe... people who want to act like Individuals are hunted down and killed because they don't want to serve the ''Collective''
That's why alot of ''old timers'' and business people don't have faith in younger generations.... because every younger generation puts ''emotions and I in front of the ''group'' or missionss'' while asking accomodations