"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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World War 2, people would marry the day they meet?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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World War II guys were betas?

I thought I'd heard it all.

I suppose they're not as macho as the guys wearing skinny jeans and earrings today? Or the gym rats who have unnecessarily large muscles for their actual lives? Or the creepy photographers who go after strippers half their age? Or the drug dealers from the ghetto? Or the military "men" of today who fight over the computer?
Don't forget the dudes with the man buns today...sooooo manly...
 

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How many times did I hear old timers (my parents and up) say: ''Who cares what I liked... it wasn't what was asked of me... it wasn't my duty... I had to take care of everyone, bring food on table etc...''

People sacrificed alot of ''personal emotions'' for the goal of ''community-society-duty''

The sexual revolution of the 1960's brought new concept but people were still ''duty'' oriented

It started to crackdown in the 1970's.... with individuality etc... (an American concept btw)

In Asia, Africa, some parts of Europe... people who want to act like Individuals are hunted down and killed because they don't want to serve the ''Collective''

That's why alot of ''old timers'' and business people don't have faith in younger generations.... because every younger generation puts ''emotions and I in front of the ''group'' or missionss'' while asking accomodations
 
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