RichardTheFrog
Banned
I know, right. What a bunch of pussies.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
World War 2, people would marry the day they meet?
- Thread starter ThisNThat
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
marmel75
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Don't forget the dudes with the man buns today...sooooo manly...
Von
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How many times did I hear old timers (my parents and up) say: ''Who cares what I liked... it wasn't what was asked of me... it wasn't my duty... I had to take care of everyone, bring food on table etc...''
People sacrificed alot of ''personal emotions'' for the goal of ''community-society-duty''
The sexual revolution of the 1960's brought new concept but people were still ''duty'' oriented
It started to crackdown in the 1970's.... with individuality etc... (an American concept btw)
In Asia, Africa, some parts of Europe... people who want to act like Individuals are hunted down and killed because they don't want to serve the ''Collective''
That's why alot of ''old timers'' and business people don't have faith in younger generations.... because every younger generation puts ''emotions and I in front of the ''group'' or missionss'' while asking accomodations
People sacrificed alot of ''personal emotions'' for the goal of ''community-society-duty''
The sexual revolution of the 1960's brought new concept but people were still ''duty'' oriented
It started to crackdown in the 1970's.... with individuality etc... (an American concept btw)
In Asia, Africa, some parts of Europe... people who want to act like Individuals are hunted down and killed because they don't want to serve the ''Collective''
That's why alot of ''old timers'' and business people don't have faith in younger generations.... because every younger generation puts ''emotions and I in front of the ''group'' or missionss'' while asking accomodations