"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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World Turned Upside Down

Oni

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I guess these things are just unpredictable. i thought i had everything planned from start and now everything went totally wrong. I had opportunity with 2 chicks and i screwed up bad. I attempt to look for other chicks but i failed as well. My buds are all starting to leave me out on things. Prom is in 5 weeks and i still have no date. My buds are making prom plans without me. I am just frustrated and disappointed with myself at the moment. I guess I learned that things always cant go the way you want it to be. what a great way to end high school.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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shut the hell up. you just need to call those guys and ask them what the f*ck is goin on. just relax and eat some ice cream
 

Damian

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STOP BEING NEGATIVE. At first, people will try to sympathize with you and try to help, but if you are being stubborn in your depression/down, then people will simply ignore you. If you wallow in your self-pity, nobody will want to help you simply because of the fact that you don't want to help YOURSELF. Stop whining and crying in the dark corner because something didn't go your way. That is the immature and insecure way of dealing with things. You have these tools at your fingertips. Figure out what you did wrong and improve upon your failures. Be positive and upbeat no matter what life throws your way. Get on with life, because, if you don't, life will simply leave you behind.

-Damian
 
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