"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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World Turned Upside Down

Oni

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I guess these things are just unpredictable. i thought i had everything planned from start and now everything went totally wrong. I had opportunity with 2 chicks and i screwed up bad. I attempt to look for other chicks but i failed as well. My buds are all starting to leave me out on things. Prom is in 5 weeks and i still have no date. My buds are making prom plans without me. I am just frustrated and disappointed with myself at the moment. I guess I learned that things always cant go the way you want it to be. what a great way to end high school.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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shut the hell up. you just need to call those guys and ask them what the f*ck is goin on. just relax and eat some ice cream
 

Damian

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STOP BEING NEGATIVE. At first, people will try to sympathize with you and try to help, but if you are being stubborn in your depression/down, then people will simply ignore you. If you wallow in your self-pity, nobody will want to help you simply because of the fact that you don't want to help YOURSELF. Stop whining and crying in the dark corner because something didn't go your way. That is the immature and insecure way of dealing with things. You have these tools at your fingertips. Figure out what you did wrong and improve upon your failures. Be positive and upbeat no matter what life throws your way. Get on with life, because, if you don't, life will simply leave you behind.

-Damian
 
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