“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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World Population Stats.

Night-hawk

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This is quite staggering data, gents.

http://www.worldometers.info/world-population/

You don't think there are enough girls for the picking? Think about this the next time you are wrapped around and caught up in ms. special and only. the main problem many of us guys face is thinking in such low availabilty, access, and numbers;and depending on proximity, yes, you may need to take your ass a bit closer to where they flock. Not all the fields are pretty pastures the pretty girls like to frollick and play at.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
 

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That's why I mentioned proximity. You can live in an area with low numbers of all those, as long as you remind yourself that's not all there is or that you have to settle for. On the other hand...it's facinating how we forget how ****ing populated this world is when we are sitting alone in our room whining over 1 *****. lol It's quite absurd. And, depending hown open you are with women, and your standards, yes, this will create a false perception in many guys that there are next to no women, haha.
 

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I actually ran the numbers back in 2002 on the raw 2000 US census data for white women in my age range + locale and came up with numbers that I still remember to this day:

LA County... 115 men for every 100 women
Orange County... 124 men for every 100 women
San Diego County... 129 men for every 100 women

I took the raw census numbers, then found the population I was interested in (20-30 year old white, educated, single, etc. women) and then ran those numbers versus the cohort of men I would likely be competing against to bag those women, and I got the numbers above. I don't think the census asks for sexual orientation so the number of gays & lesbians are not accounted for.

Granted that was 10 years ago and my demographic has changed. In any event, out West there are (or were) lots more 20-something white dudes than 20-something white chicks. I know in NYC the numbers are switched.

The demographics of your specific location play a huge role, because you're not going to be driving 300 miles for poon (hopefully).
 

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MisterD said:
And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
At least one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MisterD said:
And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
Less than one.
 

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You take for granted that every woman will match with every man, even if there were 10 men and 10 women on a desert island, half of the women would rather be in the nr.1 guy's harem than have from nr.5 to nr.10.

In order to count, women have to outnumber guys seriously in order to have them feeling the competition thus getting in shape and be less demanding.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
You take for granted that every woman will match with every man, even if there were 10 men and 10 women on a desert island, half of the women would rather be in the nr.1 guy's harem than have from nr.5 to nr.10.

In order to count, women have to outnumber guys seriously in order to have them feeling the competition thus getting in shape and be less demanding.
Good point. Considering such stats and data, it is rather elusive. I mean, there are many variables to take into account, but I grasp the reality of your point here. However, many girls and guys will eventually pair up, be that by desire, want, or just-the-sake-of-having-a-mate/provider-available factor. You see this alot in smaller cliques and groups in smaller communities where choice is limited and options are take-what-you-can-get mentality.
 
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