"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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World Population Stats.

Night-hawk

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This is quite staggering data, gents.

http://www.worldometers.info/world-population/

You don't think there are enough girls for the picking? Think about this the next time you are wrapped around and caught up in ms. special and only. the main problem many of us guys face is thinking in such low availabilty, access, and numbers;and depending on proximity, yes, you may need to take your ass a bit closer to where they flock. Not all the fields are pretty pastures the pretty girls like to frollick and play at.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
 

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That's why I mentioned proximity. You can live in an area with low numbers of all those, as long as you remind yourself that's not all there is or that you have to settle for. On the other hand...it's facinating how we forget how ****ing populated this world is when we are sitting alone in our room whining over 1 *****. lol It's quite absurd. And, depending hown open you are with women, and your standards, yes, this will create a false perception in many guys that there are next to no women, haha.
 

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I actually ran the numbers back in 2002 on the raw 2000 US census data for white women in my age range + locale and came up with numbers that I still remember to this day:

LA County... 115 men for every 100 women
Orange County... 124 men for every 100 women
San Diego County... 129 men for every 100 women

I took the raw census numbers, then found the population I was interested in (20-30 year old white, educated, single, etc. women) and then ran those numbers versus the cohort of men I would likely be competing against to bag those women, and I got the numbers above. I don't think the census asks for sexual orientation so the number of gays & lesbians are not accounted for.

Granted that was 10 years ago and my demographic has changed. In any event, out West there are (or were) lots more 20-something white dudes than 20-something white chicks. I know in NYC the numbers are switched.

The demographics of your specific location play a huge role, because you're not going to be driving 300 miles for poon (hopefully).
 

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MisterD said:
And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
At least one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SamTheHobit

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MisterD said:
And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
Less than one.
 

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You take for granted that every woman will match with every man, even if there were 10 men and 10 women on a desert island, half of the women would rather be in the nr.1 guy's harem than have from nr.5 to nr.10.

In order to count, women have to outnumber guys seriously in order to have them feeling the competition thus getting in shape and be less demanding.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
You take for granted that every woman will match with every man, even if there were 10 men and 10 women on a desert island, half of the women would rather be in the nr.1 guy's harem than have from nr.5 to nr.10.

In order to count, women have to outnumber guys seriously in order to have them feeling the competition thus getting in shape and be less demanding.
Good point. Considering such stats and data, it is rather elusive. I mean, there are many variables to take into account, but I grasp the reality of your point here. However, many girls and guys will eventually pair up, be that by desire, want, or just-the-sake-of-having-a-mate/provider-available factor. You see this alot in smaller cliques and groups in smaller communities where choice is limited and options are take-what-you-can-get mentality.
 
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