"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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World Population Stats.

Night-hawk

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This is quite staggering data, gents.

http://www.worldometers.info/world-population/

You don't think there are enough girls for the picking? Think about this the next time you are wrapped around and caught up in ms. special and only. the main problem many of us guys face is thinking in such low availabilty, access, and numbers;and depending on proximity, yes, you may need to take your ass a bit closer to where they flock. Not all the fields are pretty pastures the pretty girls like to frollick and play at.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
 

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That's why I mentioned proximity. You can live in an area with low numbers of all those, as long as you remind yourself that's not all there is or that you have to settle for. On the other hand...it's facinating how we forget how ****ing populated this world is when we are sitting alone in our room whining over 1 *****. lol It's quite absurd. And, depending hown open you are with women, and your standards, yes, this will create a false perception in many guys that there are next to no women, haha.
 

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I actually ran the numbers back in 2002 on the raw 2000 US census data for white women in my age range + locale and came up with numbers that I still remember to this day:

LA County... 115 men for every 100 women
Orange County... 124 men for every 100 women
San Diego County... 129 men for every 100 women

I took the raw census numbers, then found the population I was interested in (20-30 year old white, educated, single, etc. women) and then ran those numbers versus the cohort of men I would likely be competing against to bag those women, and I got the numbers above. I don't think the census asks for sexual orientation so the number of gays & lesbians are not accounted for.

Granted that was 10 years ago and my demographic has changed. In any event, out West there are (or were) lots more 20-something white dudes than 20-something white chicks. I know in NYC the numbers are switched.

The demographics of your specific location play a huge role, because you're not going to be driving 300 miles for poon (hopefully).
 

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MisterD said:
And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
At least one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SamTheHobit

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MisterD said:
And of those women, how many:

-live in your immediate area
-are high quality
-single
-no kids
-your age
-attracted to you
Less than one.
 

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You take for granted that every woman will match with every man, even if there were 10 men and 10 women on a desert island, half of the women would rather be in the nr.1 guy's harem than have from nr.5 to nr.10.

In order to count, women have to outnumber guys seriously in order to have them feeling the competition thus getting in shape and be less demanding.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
You take for granted that every woman will match with every man, even if there were 10 men and 10 women on a desert island, half of the women would rather be in the nr.1 guy's harem than have from nr.5 to nr.10.

In order to count, women have to outnumber guys seriously in order to have them feeling the competition thus getting in shape and be less demanding.
Good point. Considering such stats and data, it is rather elusive. I mean, there are many variables to take into account, but I grasp the reality of your point here. However, many girls and guys will eventually pair up, be that by desire, want, or just-the-sake-of-having-a-mate/provider-available factor. You see this alot in smaller cliques and groups in smaller communities where choice is limited and options are take-what-you-can-get mentality.
 
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