"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Warboss Alex said:
haha. Good find Warboss. I see you also subscribe to the nation.

You forget to put one more in there: Ronnie Coleman. He started out as a powerlifter back in the day. And he was the reigning bodybuilding champ up until last year. He's had more wins than anyone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrRuckus said:
I'm over 15% and i'm not fat.

bastard.
I take it anyone who has some sort of visible fat deposits must be fat.

If you're over 10% bodyfat and we can't see your abs... you are automatically put in the 'lardass' category.
 

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It takes alot of discipline to lose enough wait for your abs to show through. Last December I weighed almost 175lbs and I'm only 5'11". I was wondering why I never really looked very cut. Finally I started eating a healthy diet and cut out ALL the junk. Not some, ALL of the junk.

I now weigh 153lbs, and got the look I wanted. My bench never decreased at 250lbs, and I never decreased in any strengh. So I am happy to say that although I did alot of cardio, I never lost much muscle or strength. It's all about the diet.
 

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Blink is getting told by the most credible people on this forum...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheNewGuy said:
Blink is getting told by the most credible people on this forum...
By who?Call_Me_Daddy hasn't proven anything to anyone,there is no proof that anything that comes out of his mouth is credible. Warboss Alex is in the same category as Call_Me_Daddy and he is offering to train people for money?!

I'm just getting fed up with people on this board preach 'this and that' and claiming to be in decent shape when only 1 person,one,uno,the # before 2 has shown proof of it. I'm bumping my old thread,too many people preach and have nothing to back it up with.
 

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blinkwatt said:
By who?Call_Me_Daddy hasn't proven anything to anyone,there is no proof that anything that comes out of his mouth is credible. Warboss Alex is in the same category as Call_Me_Daddy and he is offering to train people for money?!

I'm just getting fed up with people on this board preach 'this and that' and claiming to be in decent shape when only 1 person,one,uno,the # before 2 has shown proof of it. I'm bumping my old thread,too many people preach and have nothing to back it up with.
Don't you weigh like 150lbs?
 

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blinkwatt - this is an internet forum. nobody on here has proven they can do anything, including you and I. WBA, Effort and throttle could be the larry, curly and moe for all we know.

to use that against WBA or anybody is lame.

if you wanna learn a thing or two about imposters, go to BB.com and read up on 'bigkev' or 'shot'. its a riot.
 

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TheNewGuy said:
Don't you weigh like 150lbs?
I have no clue why people put emphasis on how much they weight,look at Frank Zane. Frank Zane only weighed 190lbs. and he won Mr.O .
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
I take it anyone who has some sort of visible fat deposits must be fat.

If you're over 10% bodyfat and we can't see your abs... you are automatically put in the 'lardass' category.
Still not cool.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blinkwatt said:
By who?Call_Me_Daddy hasn't proven anything to anyone,there is no proof that anything that comes out of his mouth is credible. Warboss Alex is in the same category as Call_Me_Daddy and he is offering to train people for money?!
Warboss Alex has repeated tried and true things over and over again for a few years now.

You and Call Me Daddy act like internet tough guys trying to prove how cool you are in a cold world that's been mean to you.

For all I know Alex is 16 years old and makes up sh1t about himself but he speaks like an adult and says things about lifting I can actually go look up and verify. Neither of you two talk like adults so I just assume you're 16 and thus anything you say is invalid.
 

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6-heads lewis said:
blinkwatt - this is an internet forum. nobody on here has proven they can do anything, including you and I. WBA, Effort and throttle could be the larry, curly and moe for all we know.
to my knowledge, i have never posted a message that says "i do X, so you should, too" EXCEPT in a narrow category: guys attempting to lose bodyfat by methods that my own experience & research suggests will not work. In that case, I relate those things from my experience that do work. Therefore, adding my physical stats to an internet forum pissing contest would be not only silly but counterproductive.

I do not measure my weight, bodyfat or protein intake (the stats blink demanded in another thread), though I can roughly estimate each, and I know that I am stronger and leaner than I was 6 months ago, and 6 months before that, and so on for several years now. I also know that my countless years of lifting experience are mostly irrelevant because I spent many of those years lifting idiotically & ill-informed. I got very good advice from these forums over a year and a half ago, and my goal now is to add to the signal and help filter out the noise.

I mostly stick to relaying well-tested advice, for example from reliable resources like the IA forums, where most of the newbs who post here would be ignored, laughed at, banned, or otherwise too embarrased to ask (admittedly fairly stupid) questions. I also take the opportunity to ridicule advice that I believe is very misguided or lacking significant evidence. End of story, so far as I'm concerned.
 

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throttle - i did not mean anything personal, i just picked the 3 names of people who i deemed the most credible here. i was not questioning you or anyone else.

even if you guys are fatsoes or runts who've never been in a gym, you give great advice, and help me and others reguarly, so it wouldnt matter. in this atmosphere all that matters is youre commentary not how good your squat is, and there are many posters here who have given more credible input that blinkwatt, so she should not be questioning anyone's physique or weight-lifting abilities.
 

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thanks lewis, i wasn't replying directly to you as much as to blink anyway. i realized afterwards you might interpret me as answering a challenge from you, but i recognize your intent was to call out blink on exactly who he was calling out... er something like that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kev07 said:
UPDATE: I bought whey protein yesterday, I am now taking 2 scoops w/ milk before workouts, or if i'm not hitting the gym that day, 1 scoop before at around 9-9:30PM ish
Good way to start. Just a suggestion,I would recommend mixing one scoop of whey w/ 2 cups of milk 20 minutes before hitting the gym and then repeat the second you step foot in your house after getting home.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Good way to start. Just a suggestion,I would recommend mixing one scoop of whey w/ 2 cups of milk 20 minutes before hitting the gym and then repeat the second you step foot in your house after getting home.
Or you could take your post-workout drink down to the gym with you :)

-shaun
 

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Kev07 said:
UPDATE: I bought whey protein yesterday, I am now taking 2 scoops w/ milk before workouts, or if i'm not hitting the gym that day, 1 scoop before at around 9-9:30PM ish
Get some milled/ground flax seeds and put that into your shake. Whey absorbs quickly. For mysolf it messes with the blood suar levels and I get headaches. I try to eat a bit of sugar or mix flax seeds to slow the absorbtion. The **** gives me a lethargy and headaches for a good half hour. If the flaxseeds don't work, use more.

And if you have problems with the whey. Digestive.

Switch to the non-flavoured, colorless stuff. 100% pure whey. Nothing else. Doesn't taste like anything but you can put it in whatever you want.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
For myself it messes with the blood sugar levels and I get headaches.
Hmm,any protein shake I have tried does that to me as well. Do you know why protein would have that effect though?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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